I see you frantically typing, “How do I achieve unshakeable confidence in myself?” Do others in personal growth and self confidence make it look like it should be a quick and easy thing to do? Ever wonder what their secret is?

Most likely, they’re using some variation of the strategy I’m about to share with you. I call it my Confidence Mastery Strategy.

Luckily, I’m not one to gatekeep confidence in yourself success. So grab a hot cup of your favorite beverage and let’s get into how you can achieve unshakeable confidence in yourself by the end of the year! And when you’re done reading this post check out my other confidence building post: 3 New Confidence Building Habits I’ve Been Trying (And One I’m Giving Up!)

Clarify Your Confidence Goals

Before we get into the nitty gritty of the strategy, we have to ensure we know where this confidence in yourself journey is going. If you’ve struggled with achieving confidence in yourself in the past, it may have been because of unclear or misaligned goals. Here’s how you can clarify your confidence in yourself goals. Ask yourself:

• What am I looking to achieve in my self confidence journey?
• Why is this achievement so important to me?
• Is this achievement realistic given my current challenges and timeframe?

Once you answer these questions, you will have a clear guiding light as to where your confidence in yourself journey is going.

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What is the Confidence Mastery Strategy?

If you’ve heard of the Confidence Mastery Strategy before, you may think it is only for those who already walk around with sky high self esteem. Instead, Confidence Mastery is a strategy for anyone who wants to experience a deep shift in how they view and feel about themselves, no matter their current struggles or past doubts.

To put it simply, Confidence Mastery is about building a foundation of belief in yourself, cultivating habits that foster self love, and overcoming your inner critic.

The Only Strategy You Need: Confidence Mastery

I may have tricked you because we already took care of clarifying your goals above. See how easy that was? High five!

Ready? Let’s dig in.

Confidence Mastery Part #1: Be Consistent with Self Affirmation Practices. Studies have shown that those who engage in daily positive self talk are more likely to feel confident in themselves and their abilities. When you consistently tell yourself positive affirmations, it rewires your brain to focus on your strengths and potential, instead of your perceived weaknesses.

My favorite way to practice self affirmation is through journaling. I spend just five minutes each day writing affirmations that help me feel good about who I am. I have a brilliant set of free journal prompts that can help you get going with daily affirmations. Check it out here!

Confidence Mastery Part #2: Stop Doubting Yourself and Your Worth. I know this is one of the simplest sounding yet difficult things in practice. Have you been struggling with self doubt since childhood or your last challenging life experience?

Back in the early days of my career, I was in a similar boat as you. I often doubted my worth and abilities, wondering if I could ever feel truly confident. It wasn’t until I started practicing self compassion and surrounding myself with supportive people that I was able to shift my mindset.

Here are 3 tips to help you stop doubting yourself:

1. Replace negative thoughts with empowering ones – Whenever you catch yourself doubting, immediately think of three things you like about yourself.
2. Celebrate your small wins – Whether it’s mastering a new skill or simply getting through the day, take time to acknowledge your efforts.
3. Surround yourself with positivity – Join communities or groups that lift you up and encourage your growth.

If you want to fast track this journey, you can download my free Self Care Workbook to help you track your progress and celebrate your growth.

Confidence Mastery Part #3: Create a Positive Support System. When you first set out to achieve unshakeable confidence in yourself, you will likely face setbacks and moments of doubt. A surefire way to combat this is by creating a positive support system. When you surround yourself with people who uplift and believe in you, you end up becoming more resilient and capable of handling challenges. This means you’ll feel more confident in yourself and your abilities, even when the going gets tough.

Regularly Review and Reflect

While I stand by this being the only strategy you need, you must regularly assess your progress. For example, if you’re still struggling with self doubt, it may be time to adjust your self affirmation practice or seek further support.

One time, I realized my affirmations weren’t sticking because I wasn’t truly believing them. I had to dig deeper and really work through my internal blocks to embrace my worth. Once I did, everything shifted.

Conclusion

Have you gotten a little dose of inspiration for boosting your confidence in yourself? Amazing! I love to inspire women to take charge of their lives and build true self belief. It can be a discouraging world out there because there’s not always clear guidance on how to achieve unshakeable confidence in yourself.

I’ve been on this journey for years, and I absolutely love sharing my tips and strategies with you so you can feel truly confident and empowered.

Do you have any questions about Confidence Mastery? Drop them over on Instagram or here in the comments! I’d be happy to provide invaluable info for you for absolutely FREE!

While we’re on the topic of self confidence, have you seen my 30 Days of Self Love Challenge? It’s perfect for people like you who want to step into their true power.