It’s a question I hear a lot. And the truth is, if you’ve never taken time for yourself in this way before, diving into a transformational experience like a boudoir session or women’s retreat can feel overwhelming.

You might wonder, “Will I feel confident in front of the camera? What if I don’t look as good as I hope? Will the retreat really be worth the investment?”

It’s completely understandable. No one wants to put themselves out there only to feel disappointed or unsure. But don’t let those fears hold you back!

Boudoir sessions can help you rediscover a version of yourself you may have forgotten – a confident, beautiful, and empowered woman. Through guided posing, pampering hair and makeup, and a safe, supportive environment, you’ll see yourself in a way you never have before.

Women’s retreats take it even further. They’re an opportunity to step away from the chaos of daily life and truly reconnect with who you are. From bonding with other incredible women to participating in activities designed to inspire self love and growth, retreats are a gift you give yourself – and one that keeps giving.

If you’ve been feeling a tug towards doing something just for you, this might be your sign.

To help you decide, today I’m sharing five ways to know if you’re ready for your first boudoir session or retreat.

This way, you can focus on walking away with confidence, renewed energy, and memories to last a lifetime – without second guessing yourself.

(And if you’re not ready yet, you’ll know exactly what to do to get there!)

Let’s dig in.

5 Ways You Know You’re Ready for a Transformational Experience

Only you can say for sure whether you’re ready to take this transformative step. As I mentioned above, if it’s been on your mind a lot lately, chances are you’re already in a good place to start exploring your options. You may even realize that you’re more prepared than you thought!

To help you decide, here are a few tell tale signs that show you’re more than ready to book your first boudoir session or attend a women’s retreat.

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Readiness Sign #1: Others Tell You It’s Time You Had a Transformational Experience

Has someone in your life suggested that you’re ready for a boudoir session or a women’s retreat? Maybe a close friend, your partner, or even a coworker has mentioned how much you deserve this experience.

When I first started hosting women’s retreats, I wasn’t sure anyone would show up or find value in them. But then a dear friend told me how much I’ve inspired her to reconnect with herself and how other women might need the same. That moment was my turning point, and it led me to host my first retreat, which changed so many lives – including my own.

Look at me now, creating transformational boudoir sessions and retreats that empower women to see their beauty and find confidence they never thought they had.

If you don’t have someone cheering you on, try asking yourself: “What would my best friend or someone who loves me say about this idea?” Sometimes, stepping back and being your own biggest cheerleader is the push you need.

Always remember: You are worthy of seeing yourself in a new light.

Readiness Sign #2: You’re Craving Something New

Are you feeling the pull toward something that feels both exciting and a little intimidating? That’s your intuition nudging you in the right direction.

It’s normal to experience self doubt when considering something so personal. Thoughts like, “Am I confident enough?” or “What if I’m not ready?” may pop up. When I first thought about being in front of the camera myself, I had the same fears. But imagining the outcome – the joy, the beauty, and the confidence – I knew I had to push through.

Here’s how to get past self doubt:

1. Picture yourself completing the experience. How does it feel to see your stunning photos or reflect on the connections made at the retreat?
2. Imagine the worst case scenario. Spoiler: It’s not as bad as you think.
3. Remember a time when you doubted yourself but succeeded anyway.

In one of Lexy’s Heart Snuggles Podcasts she speaks with Maria Marshall as they talk about creating a Feminine Empowerment Movement. They talk about how your intuition is never going to lie to you. And how it’s important to love yourself and not care what others think about you. Lexy hosts all of the self love workshops at all of my retreats and she’s such an amazing human to get to know.

Readiness Sign #3: All Signs Point to Yes

Sometimes, everything seems to align – doors open, opportunities arise, and it feels like God is whispering, “It’s time.”

When I started hosting retreats, it wasn’t because I planned it meticulously. It was because I kept hearing from women who were ready for deeper connection and personal growth. It felt like every path was pointing to this purpose.

If you’ve tried every other way to boost your confidence or find your spark again, and you’re still searching, maybe it’s time to consider this transformational experience. Whether it’s a boudoir session or a retreat, if it feels like the next step, trust your instinct.

Readiness Sign #4: You’ve Laid the Foundation

Before taking the leap into a boudoir session or women’s retreat, it helps to have a few things in place:

1. A willingness to invest in yourself.
2. A mindset open to growth and transformation.
3. A desire to prioritize you.

When these pieces are in place, the experience becomes even more powerful. Imagine skipping these steps – you might feel rushed or unsure. But when you’re prepared, the transformation is extraordinary.

For example, one client came to her boudoir session after completing a self love challenge. The foundation she built during that time made her session even more meaningful, and the results brought her to tears (happy ones!).

If you’re not quite there yet, here’s how to prepare:

1. Start a gratitude journal to build self awareness.
2. Commit to small acts of self care daily.
3. Surround yourself with positivity – join a supportive group or follow empowering content.

Readiness Sign #5: You’re Ready for Challenges with a Transformational Experience

Big steps often come with roadblocks. Maybe you’re worried about being vulnerable during a boudoir session or traveling solo to a retreat.

I get it – those fears are valid. But here’s the thing: challenges often lead to the greatest growth. I’ve had clients tell me they were terrified before stepping in front of the camera, but they left feeling like they could take on the world.

The first step to overcoming those challenges is to make a plan:

1. For boudoir: Communicate your worries. I’m here to guide and support you every step of the way.
2. For retreats: Know that you’re entering a space where you’re fully accepted and celebrated for who you are.

Remember, challenges are temporary, but the rewards – confidence, self love, and unforgettable memories – last a lifetime.

Doubt and Real Life Obstacles

What’s standing between you and this transformational experience? Maybe it’s a limiting belief like:

• “I’m not photogenic enough.”
• “I can’t spend that much time/money on myself.”
• “What if it doesn’t work for me?”

The truth is, most of these fears stem from self doubt, not reality. By focusing on your why – why you want to reconnect with yourself, see your beauty, or build your confidence – you’ll find the strength to push through.

When you’re ready, you’re ready. And if you’re not, that’s ok too. You’ll know when the time is right.

Ready to take the first step? Let’s chat about how a boudoir session or women’s retreat can help you discover your most confident, empowered self.

Click here to book a consultation for a boudoir session or a women’s retreat!

And to learn more about if you’re ready for a boudoir session or a women’s retreat check out my latest blog:

Retreats For Women: Are You Ready To Reconnect With Yourself?